For the past 5 years of my life I struggled with my weight, sometimes it got up to 180lbs. When it was that high my grandmother would ask me not to come around that side of the family or go to her church because I was embarrasing her. Over the years she'd call me up anytime she saw a diet pill on tv and she'd beg me to accept money from her for plastic surgery. She'd go on and on about how our whole family is thin, and that I'm ruining our families reputation. Well now I'm pregnant and I'm about 190lbs and my grandma was still going at it a week ago. I got so sick of her hurting my feelings and making me feel bad about myself that I went off on her. I cursed at her telling her what a horrible person she is and that God would be ashamed of how she's treating me and that she wouldn't see her grandchild. She's Baptist and really centered on God so I knew the God bit would upset her. Then I left. Now my family is mad at me saying, "She's just a poor little old lady".
Advice?
2007-08-04
03:35:01
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Mikki Lynn Breisch
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