I have a good husband. He is a good father to my one year old daughter, he helps me clean sometimes, and he is mostly sensitive to my feelings. However, he is generally uninterested in me unless he wants to have sex. He will not talk to me for hours at a time, and I feel like I am living with a miserable person. When we go out with my family he is bored and unexcitable. He does not take me on dates or surprise me with any romantic gestures. I am 22 and he is 30, and while at first i didnt think age was an issue, I am begining to think that I am too young for him. I want to have fun, especially after a difficult year working full time and taking care of a growing baby. I feel like the best solution is to separate, because it is too late to work on our marriage. I cheated on him. (he's unaware ) I do not feel I am a bad person for what I did, I think I have just given up on my marriage. He says he will change, and I believe him, I just dont know if I care anymore.
2007-07-27
15:37:50
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Gitana
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Marriage & Divorce