I am a Christian but my husband is not a Christian. Unfortunately, my husband has anger issues, and three months ago, because of the anger issues, I gave him an ultimatum to get counseling or move out until he could make better decisions for himself and for our family. He chose to move out, did not tell me where he lives, and two weeks later, removed me from his myspace page and changed his status on myspace to "single". Last month, he told me not to contact him anymore and said he doesn't even want to be friends. I feel that he has divorced me emotionally. Biblically speaking, I feel that I have been abandoned by an unbelieving spouse. In this case, I think I have grounds to divorce him. However, I know that God can change hearts. I would like forgive him (if he ever wanted forgiveness) and reconcile if it would be possible to save our marriage. How long should I wait before I file for divorce given the circumstance? Or do you think it's just a dream that he would reconcile later on?
2007-07-19
09:40:59
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