in the growing stages fathers seem to apply more authoritarian control on their daughters,
and when some of these girls grows up they seem to transfer the same forced respect to their male partners. others hold the rage until they are old enough to resist. then god helps the guy that pisses her off.
it is not democratic when something out of the ordinary happens, because the position of authority is much more than less taken by any male who is present, no matter how stupid he may be.
all of a sudden it's alright i'll take care of this. or you stay let me see whats going on, i will go for help. if it's 2 guy around they ask each other questions in order to solve whatever.
on the other hand girl want guys to "share" their plans with them, but whenever the guys suggest that they take control. he gets, oh! so why don't you do it. or why are you having me do this, is there something going on that i should know about?
is this somewhat clear?
2007-07-16
08:15:49
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jonasc1r
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