Hi all,
I am mainly looking for the female viewpoint on this one...but obviously anyone is welcome to give constructive answers. :-)
I had a period of time where I was pretty negative, and would get in a bad mood easily, like with traffic, stress, whatever. My wife almost left me because of my negativity and constant unhappiness. After that (and for several years now)...I am 100x better than I was, I am almost always in a good, happy, outgoing mood. I'm always helping, laughing, joking, just having fun in general...so times are good. On the other hand... if she is in a pissy mood, gripey, or just plain negative...its all of a sudden "ok"...because she is in a bad mood? What kind of double standard is that? She isnt mad AT me in general...but can be extremely short with me, and in a real wet-blanket mood. (not depression) Why is this cool? I wouldnt leave her because she is like this...but if I try to address her mood constructively, it makes things worse. Help!
2007-07-12
07:21:53
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