my guy friends always ask me if im a lesbian because ive never been kissed. it really hurts my feelings. how can i be flirty and act slutty around guys so they think im straight? i am by the way. haha im just shy around guys. help no answers like "just ignore them" please!
2007-07-12 07:20:50 · 12 answers · asked by kelkel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just ignore them.
sorry, but seriously why are so worried about what they say? why shuold you act like a slut to please them, thats just degrading to women everywhere.
Chances are they are hassling you because they want you to kiss them, they probably don't really think your a lesbain they are just trying to get a rise out of you or get you to notice them.
Don't be flirty or slutty just to get them to shutup just do what you feel comfortable doing.
2007-07-12 11:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, flirting and acting slutty is a way that many lesbians have hid their sexuality even when they aren't aware or accepting of it yet. As for not being kissed yet, ask yourself, why haven't you been kissed yet. Then if your guy friends really want to know, share that reason. Unfortunately, they will think what they want, but you can give your reason and ask that the subject not be discussed again and tell them how it makes you feel. I hope this helps. Good Luck :)
2007-07-12 14:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bridget C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't act slutty around them just because they think you're a lesbian. They're idiots if they're saying that to you. I didn't kiss a guy until I was 15, and no one ever said things like to me. I know you don't want to hear it, but seriously, ignore them and find some friends who are a little more mature.
2007-07-12 14:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl you dont have to act slutty to get a guys attention. Dont go down to that level. and there is nothing wrong with being gay. Though you are not, who cares what they think. If you havent kissed a guy oh well that just means you are more pure and innocent in the ways it counts. Teasure yourself, if you "best friend" is telling you things like this and making you feel bad about yourself then he really isnt your friend.
2007-07-12 14:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by Agent_m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and talk to him, you need to make him udnertand and tell him what you told us. He is ignorant for saying that. No you dont have to act slutty, You enver get kiss does't mean you are lesbian there are many many many more girls out there that the same as you. or if he is hot hit on him lol
2007-07-12 14:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slutty???? Why would you degrade and disrespect yourself? Flirting is fine if you are flirting with the right kind of guys. Try placing yourself around respectful boys/men who honor you and think of you as wonderful. Never stoop to the level of disrespect.
2007-07-12 14:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not feel pressured to do something you aren't ready to do, just because of their comments. Something as simple as your first kiss, has a whole lotta meaning. They're saying things because they aren't satisfied about some part of their life, and they want to make everyone else miserable.
2007-07-12 14:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by groovytarheel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know you aren't asking the right people here, I am a lesbian and I don't know how to be like that around males, sorry......... (this is the gay section)
2007-07-12 14:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thinking to myself...if my future daughter EVER wanted advice on how to act like a s.lut for ANYONE I would kick myself for obviously not having good parenting skils.
I hope your mother reads this and kicks herself really hard.
2007-07-12 14:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey im a guy and if your guy friends tell you that it's because they want to get into your pants. If you need anything else you should email me.
2007-07-12 14:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋