how does it come by? pessimism is learnt when a kid mirrors his depressed family/peers etc and that nobody is born pessimistic.
ever noticed a baby, fearless of falling, always getting up to try again?
why dont we just bounce back from all the failures or perceived failures and get stronger?
why do we get pulled down and affected by people's mean words to us?
why do we so desire human companionship and acceptance that we feel down in the dumps when no one wants to partner us in a project, practical or in a game? [im feeling rejected, i dont hv a partner for all my projects, all my practicals, and practically no friends to speak of at all - in class]
how do we overcoem all these? well yea we need to change our mindsets, but what is a really effective way to do so?
2007-07-11
03:03:59
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