My bf and I have been living together for 2 1/2 years. But, we are the total opposite in the way we like our place to look. Meaning, I'm a total neat freak, & he's a total slob. Well, it use to be like this, but we've somewhat found a middle ground. However, every once in a while, he goes back to his old ways. And, it's nasty! He'll leave sweaty gym clothes on the floor, next to the kitchen. He'll cook a meal and leave dishes and food (which will dry and harden on to the stove, and sink) everywhere, etc. Basically, it looks like a tornado hit our apartment. The thing that upsets me and TURNS me off is that it's out of pure laziness. He works 30 hrs a week, if that. Whereas I work 50 hrs a week. I'm really starting to feel unappreciated, especially after his car got broken into the other day, (when he was at work) and I had to clean the mess up, & get the situation resolved. I guess my question is, how do I tell him this w/o him getting offended or ME drifting away from our relationship
2007-07-07
05:09:55
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Marriage & Divorce