He works hard and makes good money. Loves his kids and his kids love him. Is talented and intelligent. The problem is he doesnt back me up on anything or support me in anyway. He ignores me almost completley. He is passive aggressive and is constantly "pushing me down". He tells me what to do all the time, how to drive, what to say, what mood I should be in etc. I am no longer attracted to him physically or otherwise. He says things are all my fault because of my prior depression issue that kind of soured things to start with. Now that Im better, hes not there for me. Its like its too bad to fix now. Hes not a "friend" or a lover. He spends umteen hours playing war games on the computer to escape from being with me. If I try to talk to him, he says Im blaming him for everything and that its me who needs to change for things to get better. Or he gets way defensive. It always turns into an argument. Hes impossible talk to and just thinks Im a complainer. He thinks it all me
2007-06-29
18:46:17
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