My ex boyfriends are calling me a whore. And one of my ex-boyfriend's called me a poser, and a slut. I am not any of these things, ad I dont even know why they hate me, because they break up with me! I always try and be nice to them. Why are they so mean to me?? ((I am 13))
2007-06-29 18:46:38 · 22 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're 13. They're immature. They don't know how to deal with being in a relationship or how to deal with a breakup. Unfortunately it's something that will happen continually until they mature, which is sometime around senior year of high school (usually).
There are exceptions and it's usually the guys that most girls overlook. Stop dating the "acceptable" guys.. you know, the jocks, the popular guys... and start giving the other guys a chance. The most mature seemed to be the guys who get good grades and take part in stuff like student government.
2007-06-29 18:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by 1M9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are Trying to pay you back. They are young and immature and trying to hurt to.
My tip is stay away from the dating pool until you're a little older- Only because you have hormones going up and down and at this stage your emotions are very vunerable and insecure. Be a kid, be immature and muck round because you only get to be a kid once.
Also try standing up for yourself or get your friends to. Or tell a parent or teacher. It's the only advice that works every time or you could play the same game they're playing but that's a different story called "revenge" or "payback" and I wouldn't try and do it if I were you, but I'm not you.
2007-06-30 01:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gumby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why people do this is for several reasons. Men try to be cool in front of their friends at a young age and say hurtfull things. Ignore them.. Worst case scenario use this come back. Insult his penis size in front of his friends.. That will make him look like an idoit. Dont listen to idoits. They are most likely jealous of you or he has some regrets about ending the relationship. However once agian ignore them an dyou will be fine.
2007-06-30 01:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by RJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls mature faster than boys. its true..at age 13, girls are always like 1 or 2 years ahead so you should try dating boys older than you. i really liked this boy my age (im 13 also) and he knew for about 2 months, then asked me out ONLINE which was really pathetic and then a week later he stopped talking to me and told his friends we werent going out anymore.
dont let them get the best of you. all they want is drama. it sounds like to me that they are mean to you because they have nothing better to do. dont be so nice to them anymore. they dont deserve it. if i were you i would take some skittles and shove them so far up their @$$'s that they will in fact taste the rainbow.
2007-06-30 02:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a saying that you are bound to hear again in life. "People will only treat you the way that you allow them to treat you" please think about this. if you present yourself as one who demands respect, someone that is not to be used or abused, that message will come through. but prepared- when a guy can see that you are not easily impressed, approachable, used, or fooled- you will not get as much attention as before. this is because there are boys and men out there who seek girls with lowered self- esteem. these are the girls and women that they can easily control and manipulate. these girls often grow into women and never learn to spot these boy/men and they therefore get hurt over and over.
don't let this be you. be confident in the fact that you are special and unique and the mate that you chose is the fortunate one- not you!
don't let the cruel names these little boys call you define who you are- they don't have that power. only you have the power to define who you are
2007-06-30 01:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy Paige 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're choosing the wrong type of guy, I think. Just take a break from dating for now. Guys. Who needs them. Just another person around the house that you have to clean up after. You'll remember that in about 15 years when you're married.
2007-06-30 01:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by ginger 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ITS BECAUSE YOUR 13. Middle school kids are kinda hmmm bad and immature. But it also depends on how u dell with it. U let the first one be mean so the second one decided to take advantage of u too.
2007-06-30 02:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by ImKindaAwesomeAtBingo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you aren't telling s the whole story, Or they are just Jackasses, I'll go on and answer as if they are just Jackasses. They are making themselves feel "cool" by bringing you down. I'd rack these relationships up as experience and stop bothering with these clowns all together.
If they keep harassing you even though you are distancing yourself...smash the heel of your palm up into his nose and shout "Face!" ...that just might make you feel better
2007-06-30 02:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating at 13 i mean i'm going to be 12 in 1 day but i can't even emagine what it would be like to have a boy friend right now it just dosn't seem right. i know i'm probably going to have alot of thumbs down but i just don't think it's natural i mean people date to get married now don't they and that will be a while for both of us even if your going to be 14 soon. (if you are)
2007-06-30 01:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun, I'll be completely honest with you, chances are they are being that way to you to make them selves look and a feel better. Dont let them get to you, brush them off, if you know that your none of them things, then you have nothing to prove, be your self...and those who truly are your friends with accept you, and put those other people in their places. And you deserve to be treated better then that.
Take Care..and always be your self.
2007-06-30 01:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by holycowsweetjesus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋