neither i nor my ex had planned on having children, but here we are nevertheless. he blames me for the pregnancy just as i blame him. however, he believes that i should tolerate his abuse because he does not want to be a father or pay child support. he is so monstrous and deceptive now that i can not be around him. i understand that he is angry, but i do not deserve this. i did not get pregnant intentionally -- this was not due to one of those psycho i-want-to-hold-onto-my-boyfriend tactics -- nor do i believe that he impregnated me intentionally. it was sheer naivete on our parts. he left me after my father passed. he deceived me into believing that he wanted a family, then unexpectedly moved after my father died and is not remorseful. i am devastated! do men sincerely feel that they are entitled to treat women horridly after they have inadvertently impregnated them? women can play dirty, too, but someone needs the level head. for now, i am level.
2007-06-26
17:42:14
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