Hidden phone calls, hidden and late night computer times, better dressing, less affection, short phone calls w/out I love u often, not home often, lashes out often, lies when confronted about computer time, does not like me near him for phone calls. We relocated across the country and my depression/solitude has taken a toll on the marriage, I feel guilty about that. I also had suspicions that he would want someone else that I expressed it, so perhaps I made this a self-fulfilled prophecy. But after he abandoned me on a long weekend for "business" and just gave me obligatory calls and I found missing condoms - I really think it isn't my imagination. How do I get him to tell the truth? If this is true after he has been so difficult and hurtful on top of it, I want to leave, but I don't want to hurt him, just leave amicably. How do I do that?
2007-06-02
22:12:22
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