What makes a woman think she can use her children as a weapon to hurt their father? I have a child from a previous relationship and no matter how much I hate his father, I have never used my child as a weapon. As long as the father was doing well in his life and was able to take care of my son, he had every chance to see him. Now on the flip side, i have two step-sons and their mother uses them in EVERY way possible to hurt my husband. They had problems and went their seperate ways, meaning, he left her. He didn't feel it was a good environment for the kids to hear the fighting or feel the tension between them. And it is all stupid stuff, like if they want their hair cut like dads, or an earring or basically anything they want to do to be like their dad, she degrades and says it is stupid or they don't want to look or act like him. (He pays his child support, has never been in trouble and is a very, very good father) She tries to take every shred of their father away from him
2007-05-30
07:12:29
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Marriage & Divorce