Been married for 17 years, three kids,together for 25. The last 8 years of marriage awful. Lots of verbal abuse, physical when we were dating, only twice, while we were married in the last 5 years, punch holes in doors and walls, verbal abuse, walking on eggshells and making mine and my kids lives miserable. Saying some really nasty things. Beg to go to counceling 6 years ago, he wouldn't do it. Kept tellilng him that my feelings were changing everytime he would explode or do the verbal abuse thing. Still wouldn't go to counceling. I did wrong thing (I still feel guilty). I called my ex boyfriend from 27 years ago and yes, my first love. He was married & unhappy, well things happened and it has been 3 years we seen eachother off and on. Were found out, tried to work things out with spouses still couldn't keep away from eachother,even if only talking on the phone. Stil love him, w/ husband now, ex divorced now, but wants me. Husband is trying to change, what about my feelings?
2007-05-29
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