This guy I'm dating said he was using the "services" in between relationships. He says he did it a couple of times before we started dating, like 2 months before. He told me about it like a BTW thing when our relationship moved into having sex stage. I said "How gross and unsafe". He took it as a hint and went and did a blood test. He's fine. Even though we had sex already, it still grosses me out. Especially I hate it that he didn't bother mentioning it when we questioned each other about our history. I can't seem to go past it. What do you say? Am I old-fashioned? It doesn' bother me that he had sex with a few girlfiends before me. We're in late 20's almost 30. Serious answers please.
Yes, we use condoms. But they only reduce the risk, not eliminate it. It's more of an emotional issue anyway.
2007-05-23
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