I recently found out my ex-bf's e-mail password. We broke up last weekend because of a huge fight over something stupid. He told me that until then, he'd been happy. He also said that he still loves me. Well, I checked his e-mail (bad, i know), and found out that for a week in April, he had contemplated cheating on me with this really overweight, ugly girl (I'm no model, but I'm 5'5", 120lbs, pretty attractive). In one of the e-mails he sent her, he called me "a situation that will be remedied over the summer."
I also found an e-mail he sent to one of our mutual friends in which he referred to me as "an obnoxious factor" and a "fiend." Even so, he still spent every minute with me after that until the weekend we broke up.
Why would he say/contemplate doing these things YET still want to be around me and still say he loves me? What do you think his actual feelings are?
2007-05-19
06:35:23
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skichamonix515
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