i read somewhere that men (and women) look up to, admire, find it contagious and want to be around people who are happy and confident. I am not self confident and i know my husband finds it unattractive b/c i am kinda jealous. He gets nervous when a pretty woman passes by b/c he thinks I'm going to say "I saw you looking at her" or something like that. I already know I'm wrong for giving in to my insecurities and I often imagine myself stopping cold turkey and him being amazed at my change and finding a new found attraction to me in my new state of confidence. But how do i go about being that way? I wish i could be the type of woman to which my husband can say "she enjoys her life and no matter that we're broke with 2 young kids who drive us crazy, i lost my job but darnit, she's a happy camper!"
2007-05-07
09:01:43
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Angie
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Marriage & Divorce