My mom will say something insulting my dad or someone else, and when I call her out on it immediately, she says she didn't say it, that I hate her, and am putting words in her mouth. She basically lives to complain about people and things, and STILL complains about people that insulted her or didn't get along with her 20 or 30 years ago! And she is always so pessimistic... recently, she said her foot hurt and that maybe it was a blood clot and God was going to take her that way. When I sarcastically said that was a positive way to think, she said I would be happy if she died. I asked her when I had ever said that she said I had said "something to that effect", but eventually said she couldn't remember when I pressed her on it. It really feels like emotional abuse because she is just so depressed and bitter, yet anytime I says she needs help, she accuses me of hating her, lying about her, and always being against her. What is up with this?
2007-05-04
08:12:12
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