For 18 months I've been ill & in & out of the hospital. I’ve work a few days then I'll get sick, have to leave the job or they fire me b/c I can't perform like the others. My husband has been supporting me financially this whole time. I’m constantly trying to get/keep a job. A few times he became angry with me for getting fired or throwing up on myself at work when ill, but overall he's been accepting. He carries us both of us financially on a taxi driver's budget. Also his kids from a prior marriage moved in with us 9 mos ago (ages 14, 18 & 20 all males) he doesn't think they should pay bills. He supports them about 80%. He's scheduled to go to Africa for 2-3 months. He goes every other yr. Usually I’m working but not now. I have no family, disability takes yrs to get. Should I be mad at myself for telling him, "Oh I'll be fine on my own, go." Or should I be mad at him for even thinking about leaving me unemployed and ill to fend for myself? Or am I the bad guy here? Your thoughts?
2007-05-04
11:17:49
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