Every time I try to motivate my husband to do his part for our future (get a job or do what he says he's going to do) he threatens to leave me.I moved to a new city w/ lots of jobs and opportunity with my husband 6 weeks ago. He hasn't been looking but found a part-time temporary under-the-table through a friend. I told him tonight that it's find and I appreciate the cash but why isn't he looking for a permanent real job anymore. Of course, he threatens to leave me again and this time adds that I should be happy he's helping ME out. No, he doesn't have savings or a trust fund that help with living. So, I told him the last time that I don't deserve a husband that is always threatening to leave me. I'm guessing that if I don't make good on it being the last time, it'll continue and I'll be stuck insecure and feeling used (again). So, how long am I supposed to put up with it? Is there a better way (besides having ltalks about how unfair it is to always threaten divorce)?
2007-04-26
14:24:41
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LaMorena
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Marriage & Divorce