We have two female (neutered) kittens around 10 months old. Around three months ago a little black tom showed up and started playing with our girls. Then he started letting himself in (he was strong and determined enough to force the magnetic catflap). Then one night he stayed in all night. The next day we went door to door to find his real family, successfully. We found out his name, that he was two months younger than ours, and also came from a litter of three. We told them to come by and get him anytime, which they did twice. But gradually he (now neutered too) kept spending more and more time at ours, and now he is a fixture. We never really encouraged him - its the girls, not us, he spends time with, but its like we have a third cat now. Will he grow out of it? Will our cats stop tollerating him? Do we tell his other family that he has left them? They'll be upset, but it can't come as much of a surprise as he must spend NO time with them. Advice appreciated.
2007-04-23
21:52:04
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