I have been married for 12+ years, we have had so many tough challenges and made it through but after a lengthy affair on the side of my spouse and his insecurity issues and a lenthy emotional separation I feel like I am at the end of my comitment. Don't have anyone else, don't want anyone else but when I think about all the love that I don't get I wonder if I should let go. I still worry about him and how he is doing but am afraid to let him know I do. I miss him but can't stand when he calls unless it's to be nice because most of the time he's either a downer ot talks about himself too much. Maybe I am being hypersensitive as I write this but I have let too much time go by not understanding my feelings and wondering if I should let go. How do I know if this is the right time or the right thing. How do I know if there is anything left or I am giving up too soon. I know I feel better now that we are not near eachother but am always happy to visit or be visited. Don't know what to do.
2007-04-18
07:12:29
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Marriage & Divorce