Hi, I have been with my man for almost 4 years now, and it is really getting me down that he hasn't asked me to marry him yet. We built a house together and have lived together for a year now. When we first moved in he said it was his plan to marry me within a year of moving in, but that year has now passed and still no proposal. He says he is committed to me and I should just enjoy what we have and relax, he says he wants to get married. I just want him to ask me, am I being unreasonable? Is three and a half years too soon to expect lifetime committment? He knows how much it means to me, and yet still he puts it off. It is getting to a point where I truely am hurting about it every day. Am i being silly? What can I do? Every day that he puts it off it makes me wonder if he just isnt sure I am the one he wants to marry. Why is this so important to me and not to him? It is not as if we are 18, we are both in our mid thirties. I dont want big expensive wedding, just lifetime committment.
2007-04-10
10:52:31
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bluegirl6
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Marriage & Divorce