I am one year out of college. My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and we live about 100 miles apart in different cities. The long distance thing was working for a while, but recently with her own personal depression/body image issues, our relationship has been strained and our sex life/intimacy has been suffering a little bit too. Also, to add fuel to the fire, I live with two other single guys in their early twenties and we are out every weekend drinking at clubs and bars. Anyway, long story short I ended up hooking up with a friend and waking up at their place, not really sure what happened, but we definitely were hooking up. I feel pretty guilty, but I also feel that I almost should get it out of my system now before we get serious later in life. I know its not fair to her, but if we took a break and were single I think it would break her heart. I keep rationalizing it that what she doesn't know won't hurt her? Is there some truth to this? What should I do?
2007-04-02
04:11:08
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Charles D
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