My boyfriend & I are very happy together. We have a real chemistry, & we're the best of friends. However, I'm putting in way more raw emotion - I don't get why he needs so much time to throw "love" in the mix. He keeps saying he needs more time to "get there". It's been 8 months! I'm 24, he's 34 - have discussed that we both want marriage & kids, etc. But spending eight months of this seems like enough for him to really love me. Doesn't it? I hate hearing him say he needs more time - it's not like I'm going to change, or get "better". This is it, this is who I am. If he doesn't love me now, will he ever? Every other guy I've dated has told me how he felt about me way sooner. He says it took him a year to tell his last girlfriend that. We're lovely-dovey & cute - people can see that we are very fond of each other. But seriously, where's the love? My heart says be patient, my mind says he's setting me up for heartbreak.
I need good advice, please, I haven't gotten any yet. :(
2007-03-29
07:19:47
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