I should explain. My wife cheated on me, ok a one year affair. I filed for divorce & that is where we are at. I love her, but she says she no longer loves me. She wants to raise her new baby that came out of the affair alone. He is not in the picture, his wife didn't like the idea of him having kids behind her back, & since she didn't want me around I filed for divorce. I didn't want one but I didn't want to sit around wondering what was going to happen. We have two boys of our own and we have only been talking during the divorce in order to inform on the boys or during the trade off. Now she has started calling me at work, at home, and whenever else. She is asking me to lunch and tring to talk outside of the kids or the divorce. I am at a loss. I now just want to know how to tell her to go away without it hurting me. I love her and don't want to hurt her, but I filed it is over, and she wants to have everything from the marriage. That is everything but the sex, love, & responsibilities.
2007-03-28
15:18:05
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Bradley F
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Marriage & Divorce