Okay. Heres the deal. My boyfriend and I have sex. He LOVES having sex and will take it anytime. I, have yet to find the joy of sex. Why does everyone say its so great? How can I make it so great I that I am the initiator?
It doesnt hurt, it isnt 'boring' or anything, its just...eh. I could take it or leave it.
We are both in good shape, he is definately hung, and its not like I cant relax or anything, I even orgasm 90% of the time. But still, its like...all that work....for an orgasm? I'd really rather go do something else...like get a massage. Now THAT feels great. Actually, that is how he gets me on the bed with no clothes on....tricky tricky!!
Anyway, Id just like to know why YOU Love sex so much, and maybe some tips on how I can make it great for me too.
Do you think I just have a low sex drive? How can I increase it? I Do love him a lot, I love spending time with him and being sweet on him. THat is why we continue to have sex. I just dont NEED it, ya know?
2007-03-24
21:38:12
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