i'm bipolar & on meds. i volunteer for political campaigns in my spare time for something to do. while there, i walked up to my friend (also male) and his g/f whom i had just met and two other women i had never met, along with another guy about my age standing in a circle and said "lordy lordy look who's forty" . i'm 28. all the women got EXTREMLY OFFENDED. i just said it b/c i usually say some off the wall thing & people laugh. didn't work this time! my friend immediatly asked me how i got there, i drove, so he offered me a ride home immediatly & we left. now, that was 3 days ago. i'm supposed to volunteer tomorrow. do i appologize to my friend, track his g/f down, the politician running? should i blame it on meds, say i just got carded again and that 30 didn't rhyme & explain it was a joke. not bring it up since it'll be 4 days ago? my wife thinks it was extremely funny just cause it sounds like something i'd do. help, i'm thinking about quitting & just wait to see if he asks me back
2007-03-18
01:46:52
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jon n
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