All categories - 10 March 2007

i have 2 boys, 3 and 5.
When my older one was born, i never bonded with him. I know it sounds horrible, but i offten wish i'd have had an abortion (and i don't believe in abortions, i was adopted).
When I got pregnant with my 3year old, i loved him instantly, from the moment i did the test.
It came so naturel...
Now, my 5 year old is trying so hard to get my love on a daily basis. He'll play up so he'll get into trouble, he'll throw himself at me when i hug him and just doesn't want to let go... i know he does it cause he knows i prefer my 3 year old, i try to hide it, but he's very smart...
I know i hug & kiss my younger son every opportunity i get, yet i have to force myself to remember him... I feel like a terrible mom cause i favor my younger child. How can i love my older son? How can i finally bond with him and care for him as much as i do for my baby?
Do you think it was caused by postpartum? How do i fix this???
Thank you for your help.
Melanie

2007-03-10 12:19:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Someone is death. Someone is gone. Someone don't want to stay with me. I feel so bad... I need a REAL friend.... I need a boyfriend.... and I need something to do too.
Thanks everyone

2007-03-10 12:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you have dreams that that come ture alot what does that mean oh and also if you are all ways dreaming about hurricans and tornados what does that mean

2007-03-10 12:19:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weather

I'm in a good relationship, and the guy is great. I've been with him for a year and a half and things aren't better or worse than since we started dating. Problem is, I overanalyse things a bit too much, and now I think I should end things with this guy because I'm too young.

This boyfriend is kind, caring, loving, etc etc except I think that it might just be time to end it. I'm in high school. I don't want to look back and regret it because I 'settled' for a decent guy. Now, I've been thinking about a different guy for a very long time (a lot), and everything about my bf annoys me. I keep telling myself that trying things out with others isn't worth losing a 'catch', but what if he isn't the catch for me? What if he is just a really nice guy and that's why we've worked out (since I'm not exactly Miss Happy)?

I hate hurting people, and there has been twice in the past when I've almost broken up with him, but he begged and I changed my mind. What should I do? Heart/Gut or Head?

2007-03-10 12:19:11 · 4 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

Who's on em? Who knows people on em? What do u know about em? anicdotes?

2007-03-10 12:19:10 · 14 answers · asked by Mystical PotatoHead Groove Thing 1 in Psychology

Last June I took a plane trip. My ears popped really badly when the plane landed and I was having a lot of pain for two months. I went to the doctor and he prescribed Nasonex, but it didn't help. This used to affect both ears but is now only bothering my right. When I keep my mouth closed and move my jaw, or open my mouth, there is a strange noise. Sometimes it sounds like a pop (similar to the kind that happens when water comes out of your ear after a shower) and sometimes its like a weird muffled grating noise. Occasionally I have a sharp pain in that area. Until a month ago, they would also pop on thier own, without my moving my jaw. Does anyone know what this is?

2007-03-10 12:19:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dental

2007-03-10 12:19:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Music

Okay I like this guy and my friend has told him that I do but I think he thinks that we are joking!! I have wrote him 2 notes and he doesnt ever reply but he shows them to his friends and talks about it to my friends(but its good talk)! I have also attempted to talk to him 3x in the hall way and he talks but he doesnt say alot?!?! What do I need to do..? I dont wanna come off as a stalker or being annoying!! and I'm not tryin to be either one!! I wanna get to know him!! Its just hard!! But please keep in mind in all this he is a COWBOY and he said that he wants a girl in rodeo and i have been to a few but not enough to know a whole lot about it!!! But I do like it if that counts for anything..

2007-03-10 12:19:06 · 5 answers · asked by luh luh la reee! 2 in Singles & Dating

By your experience what brand is the best serpentine belt?
Is it good to use belt dressing?

2007-03-10 12:19:05 · 3 answers · asked by droids77 1 in Maintenance & Repairs

I have bra problems: i just cant get used to them. i have about ten, im 11 and they get sore so i have to wear one but out of all the teni have, none of them seems helpful. im not a cupped size, but im a trainer bra. plz help!

2007-03-10 12:19:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

2007-03-10 12:18:57 · 2 answers · asked by jorge t 1 in Singles & Dating

i am turning 16 in mid april.
i do not want a huge party, because im not rich.
i need something fun for 8-10 people to enjoy in the daytona beach/ormond beach/flagler, florida area.
i am on a budget, so nothing that will cost a fortune ($200+)
thankyou for the help! :)

2007-03-10 12:18:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Holidays

2007-03-10 12:18:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-03-10 12:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by chitownchavita 1 in Tattoos

ummmmmm..... i know it is wrong but i'm thirteen and i had sex my first time.... i was raped by my 16 year old boyfriend.. how do i tell my mom? i already went to the doctor i know for a fact i am pregnant i am so scared

2007-03-10 12:18:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

and how many of you would take advantage of it? if so, what is your race, and what would you change it to?

2007-03-10 12:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by pinhed_1976 6 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-03-10 12:18:31 · 3 answers · asked by Márcio Elias S 1 in Movies

2007-03-10 12:18:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Media & Journalism

ok so last week i put this out: ok so im a virgin still and i dont want ot have sex yet. i dont even have a bf at the time. my brother wanted these consert tickits but doesent have the money. this kid at his school knows me and has seen me but i dont know him. he is 1 year older than me. he told my brother that he would give him 4 tickits for free if i would have sex with him FRIDAY my brother told him the next day yes and the kid gave him the tickets. my bro went to the concert the other night. today he told me about having to have sex with this guy that he was gonna drive me over to his house fri and no one would be there but us to and i said no. but he said i have to cause he already wne to the concert but i dont want to have sex??? plz help: so i dident do it and told my parents but now tonight i am home alone with my brother and he JUST told me that the kid said he was gonna kick his a** so he told the kid to come over tonight and do it and that he WAS hes comming in an hour???

2007-03-10 12:18:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know some people arent like that... but please! I REALLY NEED ONE!

2007-03-10 12:18:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anony Mouse 1 in Video & Online Games

I know your not supposed to exceed 15 minutes per session in a steam room. Anyone know approx. how many calories are burnt per minute...just sitting in a steam room? It seems too easy.

2007-03-10 12:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by k1zzar 3 in Diet & Fitness

why have i got a lock on my address bar when i try to enter encypted sites? I have had no trouble in the past and can't do my internet banking, or any sites that require you to login. I checked my security settings. please help. PLEASE make the answers easy as I'm a complete novice. thanks

2007-03-10 12:18:23 · 1 answers · asked by elaine c 1 in Internet

2007-03-10 12:18:20 · 5 answers · asked by ChooseRealityPLEASE 6 in Words & Wordplay

that the whole thing is unbelievable. Are the people paid actors? I know people have problems but would you really want to televise them on national television? Does anyone else here think this show is fake? I can believe the problems but just not the way they present the whole situation like that.

2007-03-10 12:18:09 · 7 answers · asked by Wendy C 4 in Television

...go this way and that?

2007-03-10 12:18:05 · 16 answers · asked by O Kay Sojaden 3 in Polls & Surveys

teehee I'm naughty

2007-03-10 12:18:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-03-10 12:17:59 · 4 answers · asked by topaze 1 in Hobbies & Crafts

NDE ? , please tell me the whole story,,serious answers only please..thanks,,

2007-03-10 12:17:57 · 9 answers · asked by sinful vampyra 4 in Religion & Spirituality

My ex-husband was abusive, money-minded and controlling and also very, very demanding. He has sole physical and legal custody of our 14 year old daughter and lives in another state.

We divorced about 4 years ago. He always thought and I bought into the fact that we would get back together.

He moved due to job reasons and I went back to stay in the house for about 3 weeks. He was still the same and I could not adjust to him. My mother-in-law and daughter were really pushing for us to get back together as a family. I did not see that happening.

I feel that its my fault for not being able to adjust to his ways. How can I know and understand that its the dynamics of the relationship and not just my fault as they believe?

2007-03-10 12:17:56 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce