Okay I like this guy and my friend has told him that I do but I think he thinks that we are joking!! I have wrote him 2 notes and he doesnt ever reply but he shows them to his friends and talks about it to my friends(but its good talk)! I have also attempted to talk to him 3x in the hall way and he talks but he doesnt say alot?!?! What do I need to do..? I dont wanna come off as a stalker or being annoying!! and I'm not tryin to be either one!! I wanna get to know him!! Its just hard!! But please keep in mind in all this he is a COWBOY and he said that he wants a girl in rodeo and i have been to a few but not enough to know a whole lot about it!!! But I do like it if that counts for anything..
2007-03-10 12:19:06 · 5 answers · asked by luh luh la reee! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Switch it up. You've been the chaser, he's been the chasee. Flip the script. As a guy myself, I can guarentee you that if he likes you at all he will chase after you once you 'disappear'. You're making it too easy for him to lead you on. You're making yourself seem desperate. Make him chase you. Show him that you are worthy of his attention. Let him know that if he wants you, he's gonna have to work for it. As a guy, I can tell you that there's nothing more enjoyable than having girls chase after you.
Even if we like you, we'll let the game continue just to see how far ya'll will go. I know, it sounds awful, but it's true.
He knows you like him, you've already planted that seed in his mind...and watered it. Step back so the seedling can receive some sunlight and grow.
This way you won't get hurt or waste your time if he doesn't like you.
Best of luck.
2007-03-10 12:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea hes thinking about u. or he should. i know i would. ur giving the major signs that u like him. but maybe he is too shy to ask u out. or maybe he is waiting for the right time. so just be patient guys are like that. try to be hard asses. and by hard to get. and obviously its working if ur crzy about him lol. so yea just hang in there.
2007-03-10 20:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really like him, go to the next rodeo around and "run into him." He's probably just shy.
2007-03-10 20:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS JUST DONT SAY ANYRHING TO HIM FOR A COULPE OF DAYS AND LEAVE HIM THINKING ABOUT YOU HE WILL WONDER. HUMM WHY HASNT SHE GAVE ME ANY NOTES LATLY? WHY HASNT SHE TALKED TO ME? DOES SHE ALREADY HAVE ANOTHER BOYFRIEND? DOES SHE NOT LIKE ME ANYMORE? THINGS LIKE THAT HE MIGHT JUST LIKE U BUT HE IS WAITING 4 U TO COME UP AND TALK TO HIM
2007-03-10 20:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about him if he won't talk to you much
2007-03-10 20:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by nathan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋