I am stuck in an abusive marriage. I married a non-believer. I know that I shouldnt have, but God should get over that because I cant control the past. Of course I want a divorce, but this time instead of doing it my way, I'm going to try to do it God's way. I know he 'hates divorce'. But why would he want to punish me eternally with the weight of being abused in front of my kids for the rest of my life, instead of just waiting until I get to hell? I feel like Im in a lose/lose situation. If I leave, I did the wrong thing again, and He'll probly punish me with being alone since u cant remarry. If I stay, I'll never be happy and have to be around all my loved ones and friends who have Good husbands who treat them good and feel the hurt, and also continue to be shamed and abused.
I dont understand why God is still punishing me for things I cant help when I already get the point. Anyboby know anything?
2007-03-10
15:27:41
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NICE LADY
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Marriage & Divorce