I did something stupid....now I have to make ammends to a very sweet young lady..that took something the wrong way...way the wrong way....I need to know what other very "sweet" young ladies like to see when a guy has to apologize to you. I really like her alot...and its tearing me up that she's really pi%%ed off at me. She got mad at me cause I didn't talk to her when I should have. Problem is this...I think she is so great that my brain turns to mush when I see or talk with her. I sort-of blank out. I was so nervous that I just didn't say anything. I have helped other people so effortlessly with WAY more difficult situations. What's wrong with me...Im an idiot! I am never like this around anyone else just her.....please ladies help me out.
2007-03-10 15:28:58 · 22 answers · asked by Experimental876 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She reached out for some consolation...I was to nervous to talk to her...so I texted consolation instead...I am such an idiot.
2007-03-10 15:33:37 · update #1
I have been nervous around pretty girls. before...this one turns me into "mush-mouth"...its so funny...
2007-03-10 15:35:57 · update #2
Send her a copy of your question........ open up to her if you can't in person then do it on paper ..... tell her how you feel .....and a gift never hurt either
GOOD LUCK :)
2007-03-10 15:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwh man that is so cute!! :) you sound like the sweetest guy ever. ever! i'm sure she's not As pi%%ed off at you as you think she is.. if she knows that you like her then she probably realizes you could be nervous. if she doesn't know you like her then you should Ask her on a Date and just have fun with her.. if you really get that nervous you could go on a double with a friend so they can help you out. a guy i really liked and who really liked me used to call me on the phone when we were together and he told me that he was soo nervous on our first date together.. and told me about How nervous he was and stuff like that when he was around me all the time.. and i thought it was the cutest thing ever. it shows that you as the guy are showing your vulnerability and opening up to her to be able to tell her that. i think it's Way cute. and Also i am the same way.. with my brain turning to mush when you see them and you blank out. i know how you feel. but that just happens to a Lot of people when they Really like someone. with time and when you get to know her better that will calm down a little more, once you get more comfortable and realize that she likes you for you and so you will be more confident and be able to say things without you thinking she will think they are stupid and stuff like that. just try to relax. and talk to her is all i can say. and you are NOT an idiot!! don't be so hard on yourself. it happens to the best of us! good luck and things will get better! and don't worry.. she Doesn't hate you!! if you are such an amazing guy as this No girl in their right mind could hate you or Stay mad at you for long.. Best Wishes to you!!!! hope all works out! (i'm sure it will!) :)
2007-03-10 23:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound SO in love! And thats so cute!
You are not an idiot, so stop saying that. Everyone makes mistakes.
If you want to say sorry, sya it with roses- trust me ,that never gets old! Give her a sweet sorry card - preferably something u made yourself! Try to talk to her, but like if shes not picking up your phone, leave her sweet messages, like small poems or something of that sort. I know it sounds very mushy mushy, but this is what works.
Pursue her, and don't let her go - but dont act like you're stalkin her!! That'll scare her off.
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When i was mad at my guy, he had me sent roses to my house eaaaaaarly in the morning with a card which had SORRY written all over it -front and back. I was half asleep and wasnt expecting it at all, it was a damn sweet gesture.. I forgave him instantly.
2007-03-10 23:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh wow you really are in-love! what's the best to do for a guy who screwed up like you? repent, and accept that what you did was unforgivable, then while you are at it think of something that she likes but you know would be absurd, then ask her to give you another chance, if she wont and you still want her, send her a flower each day for a week but dont show up, wait, repent and wait. if it's not getting you any closer, give her chocolates for a week, if still no response then just disappear from her sight for a week, she should contact you then and forgive you, if not well, she's not the only fish in the ocean...goodluck!
2007-03-10 23:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by BlueAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may take some guts on your part, but I think that you should tell her how much you like her and even buy her some flowers or candy or something. I personally probably wouldn't have the nerve to tell someone how much I like them to their face, so notes are great, too. But, if you're sending her a note, emails don't count! A REAL letter would be much sweeter! Hope it works out!
2007-03-10 23:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by ~Lollie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The incident was it just blanking out on her? If so, thats not too bad. I would see what her hobbies and passion is. Then possibly take her to explore that passion. Also I love an aggressive man so one time to make up for that mishap is not enough for me. You should be anxious and eager to do anything for her whether the timing is good or bad,
2007-03-10 23:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by eyeofthedove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's that pissed at you because you text her and didn't talk to her??? That's really weird.........but I think you have got "it" baaad for her, so..you need to buy her some RED roses, and write her an "im sorry" letter, and seriously tell her how you feel. NO JOKE even if you think you will be embarassed, I'm pretty sure if i know girls, chances are i do because i am one,lol (im tired sorry) that she'll really appriciate it. and take it to her personally okay? Do it i promise it'll work...
i'd melt
2007-03-10 23:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called LOVE.....................buy her some flowers and tell her exactly what you just told us...........Honesty will go along way and she will think very highly of you for doing so. It takes alot of guts to get the nerve to say how you feel and if she is as sweet as you say, this action will mean the world to her.......Good Luck!!
2007-03-10 23:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter. An honest letter with all you just said. Let her read it in front of you, then giver her a rose and hug her, say sorry.
hope I could help you.
2007-03-11 00:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ive T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok try practicing this on a sister or brothers gf or something ok and try to look at something besides her while you tell her so it wont make you nervous.
2007-03-12 18:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just typed here. I would understand and feel very flattered you you would feel that way about me. She should forgive you, you sound like a very respectful person.
2007-03-10 23:36:31 · answer #11 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋