All categories - 23 February 2007

He's into me or just flattered b/c he knows I like him.
He does subtle things like going out of his way to find me. Like recently when I was at the library, he saw where I sat when I walked in & for no reason at all, he walked by my dest like 3 times within something like 10 min. and gave me a look every time (or so I think...wish fulfillment?)
The very next day he "reluctantly" moved seats to sit next to a friend of his who happened to be sitting near me, so he ended up next to me. The whole time I had this feeling that he kept looking at me. Still, his friend was a girl..& he said hi to another girl sitting behind us. I don't know if he's just trying to show off and act like he's wanted by a lot of girls...?
Plus he always used to sit far away (this is a lecture hall in college) and all of a sudden I changed seats to sit next to a friend this semester and he starts sitting in the vicinity (1 row behind me, 1 row in front...he's sat next to me before).
What do you think?

2007-02-23 07:31:29 · 4 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 07:31:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Dont people realize that the world is overpopulated with dogs and cats and many are being put to sleep. Some are starving, being abused. Some are living on the streets. I do my best to take care of strays. I have many I have rescued off the streets, as I am sure many of you have. Come on people. we can put a stop to this, Lets do it.

2007-02-23 07:31:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dogs

2007-02-23 07:31:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Games & Recreation

older-people punk ~ black flag ish

2007-02-23 07:31:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Music

im not actually pregnant yet but we are trying and im trying to come up with ideas on how to tell him when it actually happens. how did you all tell your significant others? thanks

2007-02-23 07:31:10 · 17 answers · asked by blahblahblah 1 in Pregnancy

They'll drag their kids by the thousands to see the obscenely violent "Passion of the Christ" but express outrage and horror at the sight of a female nipple. I've never been able to understand that at all.

2007-02-23 07:31:08 · 18 answers · asked by Mike J 2 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-02-23 07:31:06 · 2 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1 in Other - Computers

2007-02-23 07:31:00 · 8 answers · asked by sk8gurl 2 in Music

2007-02-23 07:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

What events led to the nazis giving up power? what happend to the Nazi movement after hitler loses his power?

2007-02-23 07:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by Perfectly happy 1 in History

2007-02-23 07:30:57 · 13 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Polls & Surveys

I've seen several references to this, but just now I saw as an answer:
"and by the way Christianity is not a religion, its a fellowship of the Christ."

Are xtians actively trying to give their Religion another title, simply by repeating it over and over??? Do you think they then hope they can call their Religion a "fellowship" and then get around things like Religious stigma, separation of church and state, and use their new name for to prop themselves above other Religions?

2007-02-23 07:30:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

anyone has any info on the breed, personality, training, etc

2007-02-23 07:30:53 · 6 answers · asked by MIO 1 in Dogs

2007-02-23 07:30:52 · 12 answers · asked by Shaba laba ding dong 1 in Polls & Surveys

Why is the POPE not infalliable?

2007-02-23 07:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

i had sex with my boyfriend 1 day after my period ended and he isnt completly sure if he pulled out in time, its been 2 weeks and im about and....i feel fater:/ what are my chances of being pregnant????

2007-02-23 07:30:48 · 7 answers · asked by poop p 1 in Pregnancy

i connected the ethernet cable to the modem and xbox. the connection test works, but when i try to log onto xboxlive it says i hav to download an update. it starts to download and then it stops and says "unable to download". now i cant connect to live at all! what do i need to do?

2007-02-23 07:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by denten_007 2 in Video & Online Games

How come junior high didn't teach me that Columbus killed so many Indians before taking south America over? For some weird reason I find it hard to believe that this piece of garbage has a parade? People want to bash gay parades and such, they should ban this parade instead. Columbus has a parade, why? He did get to the new world, but he wasn't the first ( ever heard of the Olmecs?) Why doesn't the school system just cut the crap and teach us the murderous truth about this Italian/ Spanish hit man. when I got to college that's when I started to learn the truth! This guy is no savior, he used the Bible as justification for murder and enslavement of Indians and Africans. This dumb *** went to Africa to pick on my people after killing numerous Indians who they killed themselves. Damn! If Native Americans don't want to celebrate it I don't see a problem, so F@&K you if you do.

2007-02-23 07:30:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

2007-02-23 07:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by Lizzy 2 in Makeup

2007-02-23 07:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by Harold E 1 in Basketball

Racism, is it really necessary???

2007-02-23 07:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by ~sophiei~ 4 in Fashion & Accessories

A bit long, please bare with me.

The 411: I'm 22, live in NYC, been married for 2 yrs, my wife is 26. We have no kids, we don't own anything whatsoever, we just rent. We got married kinda quick and didn't live together right away (big mistake). She has a H-U-G-E untidiness(sp?)problem which has gotten out of control, we don't have sex anymore because of her apparent stress-related, ongoing menstrual disorder, she shows no compassion whatsoever, all her conversations with me are about financial issues, she never asks how I'm doing or anything. I've tried everything from putting my foot down to being polite to buying flowers to recommending physicians to cleaning the ENTIRE house up myself in one day (took 9 hrs) only to have her mess it up all over again. I got us into counseling a couple months ago, it only lasted 3 sessions because she said "I don't feel like fixing things right now because when I wanted to fix things, you didn't want to fix things (not true), right now I'm depressed over the fact that I'm 26 and not where I wanna be in life." She didn't even give counseling a chance, we spent 2 of 3 sessions telling the doc our backstory. It could have worked, I felt like it was going to work because we were both getting our emotional baggage out in the open without getting into a fight.

For the past few months, I've been living at my father's place because our house is very unhealthy physically and emotionally (you can't even sleep on the bed, looks like God pooped on it), fruit fly epidemic, I'd go into more detail but I don't wanna get too graphic, just think "Superdome" and "Hurricane Katrina" minus the flooding/death. But my father's place isn't exactly the best place to be, but it is a step up from my place because my father works with me to help keep the place more tidy than our place. However, it's not good because my mom has alzheimer's and my older sister is mentally retarded, so it's like having two additional kids in the house, they make a mess of the Apt. with food, important things missing, bladder, #2, etc. I'll stop before it gets too disgusting. So my place and his have SOME similarities.

You may say get a divorce, I'd love to but what's holding me back?

1) If I divorce her and let her keep that (once upon a time) nice apartment, I could stay at my dad's, save up money to get another place, right? But I'm worried about my dad becoming too overwhelmed by my sister/mother and dying (he's 62), I have no other family to run to unlike most people. I'd be screwed. He keeps telling me that he's not gonna die anytime soon, but I worry nonetheless, I feel like I'm hanging on a thread, ya know? I wish he was in his 50s right now. He can't even have any help come over to take care of both of them, there would be no room in the place for an extra person and he doesn't wanna put them in a home.

2) If I divorce her and I keep the place, fix it up, etc. There still remains the issue of financial security. Where I work, I make $12/hr, full time. Not a livable wage right? That Apt. is $800/month, cable/internet + light/gas = about $1100 total. Then there's some bills and food, let's just round it all to $1500. I have like how much left over at the end of the month, $150-200? Give me a break.

My main dream is to be a filmmaker/writer, I'm currently trying to get my scripts shown and what not, I workshop them as well, but it is a hard business to break into so obviously I have to do something "in the mean time". I'm not in school right now. My dad is trying to get me a doorman job, they make close to $30K, some even more. If I could get that job, that would help me make a decision a lot faster. However, if I can't get that, then the only other thing I wish to do is go to school for Medical Billing/Coding. There's not much jobs you can get around here WITHOUT some kind of degree. Why doorman and Medical billing/coding? Because I simply don't mind them for one, my dad lives in a doorman bldg. and I know how it works, and some medical billing co. allow you to work at home AFTER you work for them for a specific period of time and meet their requirements, plus I don't mind office work at all.

You can imagine how frustrated I am. Here I am, withholding on divorce for the sake of financial insecurities. I'm stuck between waiting on this doorman thing (my dad is supposed to hear back from someone who's working on it, it's been a week and half) and signing up for medical billing course. Please don't lecture me on money isn't everything, it is, how else are you living where you are right now? How else are you paying for your food, clothes, and all the other things you're able to do? Vacation? Gifts? Businesses? Money IS everything. Let's face it, love won't pay the bills. Don't get me wrong, I'm not materialistic, I just wanna play this thing the right way because I realize I'm young, smart, a great guy, what not. I wanna make the right choices and eventually, someday, have a family of my own, one whereas in if my son or grandson faces a similar situation, he WILL have relatives to come to for help unlike me.

Anyways, I'm going on and on, I'm sorry, I'll stop. Any insightful advice about this dire situation? All jokes aside, serious responses please, I'd really appreciate it.

2007-02-23 07:30:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 07:30:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Electronics

I'm researching and need help....

2007-02-23 07:30:25 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie P 1 in Comics & Animation

2007-02-23 07:30:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

A friend and I are going to Seattle for a day, any suggestions? We are interested in folk art, Asian, and Native American culture. Not really into night life, bars, clubs, etc. We plan to visit Chinatown, Pike's Place, and the Asian museum. Anyone familiar with Seattle have any additional suggestions? Thanks --

2007-02-23 07:30:19 · 5 answers · asked by Joni DaNerd 6 in Seattle

Ok, so we're having a hard time to decide on a name (its a boy). "Daddy" is John William the Second. though neither of us wants a John William the Third, we've toyed with the idea of a name that means John - NOT Jack, that is the dog. I know Jean in French, which I don't like. Giovanni in Italian, which I do like. Now usually "Dad" is called Johnny, which would be Gianni in Italian, also, very cute. Anyone have any other names that they know if, language not important here, that means John?

2007-02-23 07:30:17 · 13 answers · asked by Noota Oolah 6 in Baby Names

I like him and I know he likes me, too - I catch out his eyes on me every time when I look at him.
I want to start a coversation with him but the problem is that I'm going extremely nervous and absolutely speechless when he is around me.
How can I overcome this nervous? Please, give me an advice.

2007-02-23 07:30:17 · 15 answers · asked by sweet666 5 in Singles & Dating

I have tried lots of site, but am only getting trial version. Would be ver appreciative of any help. Cheers!

2007-02-23 07:30:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Video & Online Games