My wife and I are separtating, I haven't moved out yet though. She said she loves me but she is not in love with me. I have found out also that she has been talking to another man. She confessed to me that she has been and she said she didn't tell me at first because she was afraid it would crush me. She told me yesterday that they shared their first kiss. Later that night, we had sex, something we have continued to do with certain groundrules such as no kissing. Well we got too involved last night and we kissed. After it was over my wife was upset because we kissed, she was afraid that her new "friend" would find out about it. I love my wife and I want to try to work things out with her, our problems stem from a lack of communication, neither one of us has cheated on the other. She has not been open to counseling. Should I call her in the morning, I don't get to see her until suppertime everyday, or should I wait until she gets home and talk, or should I just leave her alone
2007-02-19
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