Recently, my husband and I travelled to Paris. His sister and niece had used our apartment while we were away. We have a spacious apartment and I thought it would be fine. We have an extra guest room, which I prepared the guest room for them before we left. However, I found out that they slept in our bed. I specifically asked him twice if they would prior to our trip, and I said it was okay if his niece wanted to. She is 10 years old. I also asked his mother and said it was okay if his niece slept there. I made my point very clear that I would not like it if his sister slept there. However, when I found out, he said there is nothing he can do about it.
I feel slightly violated and as if I have no say in the decision making process regarding our bedroom. I feel that our bedroom is a very private. We have ample space and felt that they could have slept in the guest room.
Am I being unreasonable?
2007-02-17
21:31:10
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mitaigirl20
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