This is a pretty long story that needs to be condensed. My wife and I are in couples therapy. We are going through the first big hurdle in our relationship after seven years and four kids. I was very stressed out over the last month or so- intense work related problems, trouble with a very good friend I have known since HS, four kids, plus my wife has gone away to two conferences for the first time ever, as she is getting more independent. Some of her actions were disturbing, she lied to me about two of these guys being gay- and I snooped into her email account and looked at her phone 2X. I told her I did as it made me feel like crap and now we are barely talking. It has been a week of ice cold- but I am giving her the space she has asked for. We had planned to go to a romantic overnighter and I asked her if she still thought it was a good idea day before yesterday and she said, "We always have wanted to go, so lets do it." I dont want to do more damage. What should I do?
2007-02-15
01:46:14
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Marriage & Divorce