Ok, so I was talking to my friend about, what else, boys!
Specifically, the fact that I've never had a guy ask me out, never had a guy my age be interested in me. I'm not hideous... I don't think I'm at all attractive, though...
5'5, Brown Hair, 115 lbs...
& more importantly, I'm actually a nice person. I'm caring, treat people with respect...
Older people know that I'm a sweet person, & can't figure out why I can't get a b/f...
Anyway, she said that the reason might be because I don't play hard to get. If I wanna talk to a guy, I try to. I'm shy sometimes, but I try to break out of that, & I'm not gonna go around ignoring people and playing headgames.
She said that that is all guys my age respond to, though. She claims that if I start ignoring a guy I like, and act all "mysterious," it'll make him come chasing after me.
Is that true? If so, why?
Why can't anyone appreciate a girl that is straighforward about the way she feels, and doesn't wanna mess with anyone's emotions?
2007-01-17
12:30:29
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