I dated a man back in the 90's. We were young and in love. I loved him so much and we both wanted to get married. There was only one problem...he couldn't have anymore children. He had a vasectomy after his son was born (at the request of his ex-wife). I wanted kids. The chances of us being able to have children following a reversal was slim to none. I didn't want to adopt. After a few years I decided that I would make that sacrifice because I lived him. After some consideration, he said he could not ask me to make that sacrifice. He knew how bad I wanted to have a child, to carry my own child. He felt that I would not be happy unless I did. We parted on good terms and kept in contact. Last yr both his parents passed away, and he contacted me to let me know. He lives 1,000 miles away. He also announced he was getting married in Sept last yr. I haven't spoken to him since, I said I was sorry for his loss, but glad he found someone to love (10 yrs AFTER me).
I still love him...
2007-01-06
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