I used to be really into my girlfriend. She was all that mattered to me. I really gave this relationship my all.
I wanted to be with her constantly, and so did she most of the time.
However, whenever she found something else to occupy her time,
she seemed to forget about our "close" bond and ignore me.
I would complain and she would accuse me of being too clingy and needy.
She even told me that I don't love myself.
So I decided to start loving myself more and giving myself more attention.
Now that I'm more independent and have adopted a nonchalant attitude about the relationship, she is freaked out and now questions whether or not I love HER.
She complains that I don't look for her anymore.
I believe I still love her, but I can't see myself being that vulnerable to her again because she didn't appreciate it anyway.
Should I feel bad?
Isn't this what she wanted?
2007-01-06
22:28:07
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negrito con sabor
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Singles & Dating