My boyfriend of two years is lovely, but it's clearly not going to work out. A year ago, I developed feelings for a friend (who I'd always thought was hot but didn't really get to know until then); we flirted a lot but it was obvious nothing was going to happen while I was still with my boyf. He backed off - unsurprisingly! - and we're still friends but a bit wary of each other. After this I decided to make a real effort with my boyfriend. I was very stressed (difficult time with other friends, work etc) and I felt pressure to make the relationship work. My boyf and I moved in together 6 months ago but he's now moving out so we can "see how it goes". I think it's doomed - he's a lovely person but doesn't want sex and he's not a great communicator - we're just very different... And I can't stop thinking about the friend I like. I feel terrible for leading this guy on by flirting when I had a boyf - if and when boyf and I split up, how can I convince my friend I'm serious about him?
2007-01-03
21:52:10
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