She is rude, flirtatious towards my husband, judgemental, speaks thier language(Korean) even though she his perfectly skilled in English, takes over my kitchen by getting up to get them drinks or food without even asking or impling the guys need refills or whatever, she's neglectful mother, parties too much, and never seems to want to conversate, but when she does she's putting me down or tries to argue any opinion I have. The point I'm trying to make is she a person I could never be friends with but because my brother-in-law has to bring her over with him I want to respect his wishes, but damn-the girl is 26 going on 16, and I'm loosing my patience. How do I tactfully step-up and regain respect in my own home? I had a problem with my husband's cousin-in-law, but I finally called her and told her that in my culture the women respect a man's wife...etc...whicj was easy because I only have to see her at church. i'm not a push-over, in fact I am strong spirited...I have to be tactful.
2006-12-24
02:19:48
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