my boyfriend doesn't like affection, almost at all. we've had arguments over it and he and his ex did too. He's much better about it now but whenever it's brought up he always says that he does it just because he knows i want it, i like the fact that he wants to make me happy but i also want him to WANT to show me affection. he's also very double standardish about it IE he complains if i don't kiss him or hold him at night but if i ask for a kiss sometimes he shows he doesnt want to though he does (kiss me that is) and he wont hold me unless its to get me to roll over and hold him. Also he'll touch me in public because he knows i like affection but doesnt like it when i touch him in public- he's not a fan of PDAs
Is it too much to ask that he want to touch me?
Is there anything I can do?
BTW I tried just not showing him affection and we went an entire 24hours without touching a single time, he didn't even notice.
2006-12-19
23:49:14
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attila
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