I'm a happily married guy with a young family and nothing i'd seek to change. However, i'm really confused by the feelings i've got for a work colleague who i've known for about 4 years as a friend and recently who I have really, truly fallen for. It's not just lust before you ask, i've known her too long for it to be pure physical attraction, it's that I really care about her in the same ways I felt about my wife when I met her. I'm just crushed by it, I dont know what to do, I can't avoid her (too small a workplace) and yet I cant keep my mind off her. I obviously cant tell her, what should I do...is it just a case that time will lessen the feelings? Is it possible to fall in love twice even when youre not looking for it?
2006-12-17
04:31:37
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Ethereal
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Marriage & Divorce