My married daughter has lived out of state for 8 years. The grandkids are now 3 and 6. We were never on great terms, but civil, due to long story from college days, etc. My husband and I can never "win" with her. We have been told not to take things out on the kids. so I remember all birthday,s holidays, etc. We never hear a word. We are in Ohio , and she is in Oregon. It seems a losing goal, we can't gain ground with her. We feel she is not allowing the kids to get to know us, even long distance. She never calls, or nothing. No pictures through the internet of the kids or no contact at all when it comes to our celebrations. We are in our 60's now and anything could happen. On our end, we have put past behind us, but it seems she is holding on to it. We think drinking and maybe other addictions could be a part of her behavior. We went through all that during high school years. She estranged herself from us druing college and we have very little contact,We are blamed!!
2006-12-08
01:58:35
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sequim2005
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Marriage & Divorce