Follow up: w/ this condition I have been reading about (that I think she might have; she has admitted to me something isn't right in the way she "thinks" but she doesn't know what or why), one of the paramount concerns a person will have is an enhanced fear of abandonment. Another is depression. If I cut her loose completely, she will only tell herself she was right for fearing that I would run from her and merely abase herself more, not only for me leaving her, but also for chasing me away. Now, I know it doesn't have to be my problem, but I REALLY care about this girl (just hate these actions, but I realize she can't necessarily control them and probably needs help in doing so). So w/ this in mind, how would I gently suggest that I have found some material that sounded relevent, I hope she will read it, and if she chooses to seek help, that I will be there to support her?
2006-12-05
01:46:20
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