My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4.5 years mostly long distance but in the same city too. After graduating in May, I moved home & he has been living at home for 2.5 years (he is 25). Since then, we have been working with the distance and seeing each other once a month. I have an office job. He can work from home anywhere. The arrangement works fine, but I am tired of the distance. I want to live in the same city. I suggested he try living in my city, but he says he does not like it. So, I even offered to move to a place we both like. He says he loves me but he is not ready to move & leave his friends/family. He also said he not sure if he wants to marry me. He feels moving to a new city/living with someone means marriage and I told him I didn’t feel that way and I am not sure I want to marry him either, but we would never find out if we don’t take the next step. I feel like the distance is never going to end. What do I do? Give Deadline- what Timeframe? Breakup, Wait, What?
2006-11-30
02:04:48
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