I have been married for almost eight years. I am 29 and my husband is in his late thirties. My husband and I had to get married in a rush for legal reasons and we never discussed having kids before we got married. I think I just assumed that that's what everybody wants. Well, not my husband. We didn't talk about the subject for a few years, but when I was about 25 I started having a strong desire to have a baby. He told me he never wanted children. I thought that eventually he would change his mind. Everytime I would bring up the subject, he woud get really angry and defensive. Now, at 29, I am at a point where I feel my biological clock ticking really loud. I envy every woman that has a baby and wonder why I can't be among the fortunate ones. He will not budge. He thinks having a baby is absolutely irresponsible unless you are a millionaire. He went as far as to say he'd rather be dead then have a baby. Can this ever be resolved? How do you stop wanting to have a baby?
2006-11-25
04:12:01
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amaya m
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Marriage & Divorce