The man I was dating several months back was having financial problems. I was 19, he was 26. I didn't know the severity of his problems until I started having to pay for everything: dates, dinner, movies, shopping, his gas, his food...etc. His car was almost repo-ed, I loaned him $800 so he wouldn't miss his payment. He promised to pay me back. Months later we stopped seeing each other. Everytime I'd ask for my money, he'd dodge me. The last time I asked he became angry. He said he couldn't pay me back. He has some items of mine(he claims to have lost, and said that is my fault i left them) I really want back: autographed CD's and diamond stud earrings. He said to leave him alone. Im in a serious bind. I want to get a lawyer, but in order to do so, I'd have to tell my parent's. They'll be FURIOUS with me for even loaning out money. What should I do? It isn't fair for me to sit idle while this jerk is probably conning another girl, and telling her the same lies he told me. Please HELP!
2006-11-18
22:56:22
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Sarah A
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