All categories - 14 November 2006

Okay, I am really shy, but can now hold a good conversation with female colleagues. On numerous occasions now I have had great conversation with girls I've worked with - the conversation can go for ages, we're both laughing and having a good time, sometimes there's a little bit of flirting/joking happening (but I'm not very good at that). The conversation usually goes into personal life outside of work.

But this is what is pissing me off. When I suggest catching up, even if its lunch outside of the office, it seems that I get a rejection - they either say they're not having lunch, or they're too busy (and sometimes they say they're flatout for a couple of weeks).

These same women don't treat me differently after they've said no. Am I not correct in thinking that if they say no because they think I'm coming onto them, they would be less friendly?

So what do I need to do to stop this happening? Pls give me specifics of what I should do. Im desperate to figure out what I'm doing wrong

2006-11-14 19:04:10 · 6 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Singles & Dating

i just started my period im 14 and i dont really
like talking to my mom about this...
how do u insert a tampon???

2006-11-14 19:04:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anahaya T 1 in Women's Health

In salty water

2006-11-14 19:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by John Davids 1 in Water Sports

It has to be in the hundreds of millions. When I see the ignorance, hypocrisy, gullibility, and hate of the Christians on this site now, I remember why I left.

2006-11-14 19:03:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

Is there any why to pickup Hotmail from anothre URL if the MSN site is blocked by the Corporate Server Police? I just want to read my mail from the office!

2006-11-14 19:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by MARK S 1 in Internet

This is hilarious-------> http://youtube.com/watch?v=dqFiZ0iL9QM

2006-11-14 19:03:27 · 6 answers · asked by Pedro Xavier Ramirez 2 in Polls & Surveys

2006-11-14 19:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Health

A: Volcanoes that contain small amounts of water
B: Volcanoes that have thin magma
C: volcanoes that contain small amounts of carbon dioxide
D: Volcanoes that have large amounts of silica

2006-11-14 19:03:22 · 3 answers · asked by pimpdaddy37686 1 in Earth Sciences & Geology

2006-11-14 19:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by clueless 1 in Words & Wordplay

2006-11-14 19:02:40 · 6 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Fashion & Accessories

And even though most of the guys that I meet accepts me for who I am and does really nice things for me even if I've treated them mean. Most of these men are just a friend not boyfriend. How can I stop letting myself get so irritated? Please help me! I woud like to accept people for who they are and be more tolerant and kind towards others.

2006-11-14 19:02:26 · 5 answers · asked by ghettofessional 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-11-14 19:02:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

When i put my ear up to the speaker i can hear that they are working but, when i try to listen to something, or play music all i get is white noise.

2006-11-14 19:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by seth 1 in Home Theater

This is another tax through the back door on people of London and soon the whole country, as the other local authorities will follow shortly.

2006-11-14 19:02:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Commuting

2006-11-14 19:01:19 · 7 answers · asked by Batman 1 in Music

2006-11-14 19:01:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cell Phones & Plans

and i want to transfer it to a bigger pot with more soil. i ask some plant shop owner what soil should i give and they say any soil will do. i read some where it mention that Bonsai plant can only accept certain soil.

I got a volcanic potting mix with peat and cocopeat base is this potting mix good for my bonsai?

What potting mix or soil should i get best for my bonsai?

2006-11-14 19:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Garden & Landscape

2006-11-14 19:01:08 · 4 answers · asked by janice 1 in Cameras

2006-11-14 19:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki Tesla 6 in Polls & Surveys

2006-11-14 19:00:34 · 17 answers · asked by danisha 1 in Mathematics

2006-11-14 19:00:23 · 6 answers · asked by j_giampietro 1 in Other - Holidays

2006-11-14 19:00:21 · 6 answers · asked by gajendran j 1 in Investing

My daughter is smoking before she eats in the morning, I think she should eat first, Kind of being an idiot to smoke first

2006-11-14 19:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Movies

just for fun,,give me a name or initial or whatever psychic thought comes to mind,,lol.

2006-11-14 18:59:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday something unusual happened to me. in the middle of the night, i suddenly woke up and felt something. it is difficult to describe but it was like being reborn and realizing your existence. i somehow felt the shock and fear of existence. than i remembered everything i wrote and thought about existence and how right they are. to exist is difficult - to accept that you exist without knowing what is beyond is more difficult - what so you think about it? how do you stand the unbearable pressure of the unknown?

2006-11-14 18:59:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Philosophy

There have been many, many writings about alien sightings,.. (Probably even more so than religious ones) YOu can't really prove that they are out there, but many believe so...
Or is it easier to dismiss them because they don't promise eternal hell if you don't believe in them?

2006-11-14 18:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

none of his wifes had aids

2006-11-14 18:59:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Music

If there is not afterbirth for each pup, what happens?

2006-11-14 18:59:04 · 5 answers · asked by gemma 4 in Dogs