I have a wonderful husband, he doesn't have any problem with me neither do I have any with him. Being brought up in a partially disfunctional family, I'm pretty resistant and argumentative and sometimes feel very disturbed emotionally. I'm very direct and yes, sometimes rude. I'm very reactive and react suddenly. I just find out a reason to argue with my husband and try hurting him for any minor mistake, and after that I usually say I'm not gonna stay with you any longer because you are not suitable for me etc". Then the next day I feel guilty of hurting him (even if he's hurt me in return) and I apologize and we start a normal life again.
My concern is, will he take me seriously, if I continue doing this? How can I maintain a more balanced behavior?
This is happening quiet often, we're fighting for no reason, which is affecting our marriage. We have no kids. But I love him and fight with him bothers me more than anything in the world.
How can I have more control over my behavior?
2006-11-13
17:25:14
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Just4YA
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Marriage & Divorce